Posts Tagged ‘BDSM’

Angela’s Story begins here. I once heard a story about a man who put his head in a lion’s mouth. On being asked why he had done it he replied, “it seemed like a good idea at the time.” Now maybe it is just me, but I always thought all these glib reasons for doing […]


The Therapist

30Apr11

It had been Lady Morton who had first mentioned him. “Did wonders for my melancholy,” she said in that off-hand way of hers. I had been completely shocked at first. After all it was such a scandalous idea. I don’t think Lady Morton would ever have made such a disclosure had her maid not directed […]


The first of the cherry blossoms touched my heart with happiness, like a gentle hand in the morning mist. The first pink dusting on the trees was the sign that spring had come at last. This was my season, for in those days I was young. I was to be married to my Yoshi, a […]


A funny thing happened on the way to the forum… two girls (sorry women) were talking in the pub on the next table about their friend. It turns out that said friend thought it would be ‘a laugh’ to pose for some nude pictures in her lunch break. To this end, she persuaded another friend […]


Emma’s trials

25Aug10

Emma had been under Mildred’s tutelage for a month now. On three occasions she had almost left, but something had held her. She was totally out of her depth, a point underpinned after the first week when Mildred had written out a resignation from her job and demanded that Emma sign it. It was the […]


The Visitor

24Jun10

He had been travelling for decades in human time, almost ever since his kind became aware of the corporeal culture on the distant planet Earth. At first, the analysis had almost missed the nuances of this complex civilisation, but he had seen beyond that. His field was order and discipline, but the revelation about human […]


The last post, From the Top Shelf, was about British spanking magazine’s as republished in the new blog of the same name (see link on right). Interestingly several people thought it was about Hermonie’s regular feature about paperback novels that contain spanking references. Before the magazines, for most of us there was indeed the search […]


About a month or so ago you may have noticed a new link appear on the right with the legend: British Spanking Magazines. Back in March this year a this new blog was launched to republish many of the great stories and pictures from old spanking mags, such as Blushes, Roue, Janus, Februs, Swish and […]


After another scan of the web boards this week there has been another discussion on safe words and the difference between discipline and erotic spanking. Here for what it is worth are five types of submission and examples drawn from various sources. Play spanking – the spankee wants it and you want to give it […]


So you know you’re not vanilla. But then what are you into? Maybe its not important to you because you don’t like labels?

But then again perhaps before you can cast aside labels you need to be clear what the labels are.

What for instance is the difference between BDSM and BD or S&M? Are these the same as subDom or is that something else? Perhaps you are just an anal-centric spanking fetishist.