Mentor Mine

20Jan20

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A few years back I wrote about a professional woman who sought and found a spanking mentoring relationship with another older professional woman. We speculated then whether this was a common need among women. It seems that for some it is.

Here are a few more such situations.

Tiffany from Boston wrote a testimonial for a professional spanking mentor called Jenifer.

Let me start of with a little bit about me and why I decided to see Jennifer. I am a college educated professional woman. I have a decent job and kids. I am also involved in my community and stuff like that. I mention this because when I was going through this process all the way up till I had my session with Jen I kept trying to talk myself out of it. Because I was “normal” and I didn’t need to do this. But I knew that I needed to do something to get my life back on track. And I think I made the best decision.

Anyway, about a month ago I was feeling lost and I sort of felt like my life was getting out of control. I am a very in control type of person so this was weighing on me. So I did a random google search for “spanking therapy” I honestly didn’t even know it was a thing. The first thing I saw was a buzzfeed video. I watched it and I was like that’s nothing I can do that. Then I looked to find someone who does this type of stuff professionally. I saw a lot of crazy/sex stuff and I absolutely did not want that. There was nothing sexual in what I was looking for. That’s when I saw Jen’s site. I spent a long time looking at it and reading everything. I learned really quick that the buzzfeed video wasn’t a realistic picture of spanking therapy or what Jen did.

After going back and forth for a few days I clicked the link the join the site, so I could read the forum. With in like a day I got an email from Jen welcoming me to the site and asking what I was looking for. I was looking for life coaching with discipline. I needed to be held accountable. You could tell by her emails she was super sweet and nice. She recommended that I ask questions on the forum, which I did. Everyone was really nice and answered my questions. The one thing that stood out to me was that for the people on the forum this wasn’t really about spanking it was about changing your life and fixing things you have always wanted too.  They had a super positive experience with this and it helped them and I wanted that too.

So, I filled out the application. Within 48 hours I heard back and Jen accepted my application and she wanted to see me in less than 2 weeks! I pretty much knew in my heart that I was going to do this but it did take me a couple of days to process things and set up my appointment. Then came the phone call. I was super nervous all day about it. But pretty much as soon as I heard her voice and we started talking I immediately relaxed. It’s really hard to explain she has this way of making you feel at ease, even on the phone.

A week after the call I had my session. Honestly I was so torn with everything I was about to do. I sort of felt like I was going crazy. Even though I read everything on the site and listened to podcasts a little part of me was nervous and was wondering if what I was doing was safe, mentally and physically.

All those feeling pretty much instantly went away when I met her.  She has a very welcoming personality. She make you feel very comfortable about what you are about to do and what’s going to happen. She is so professional about everything that I never really felt awkward. She made me feel very safe. It’s hard to explain but I just trusted her and trusted that she knew better than me and that she could help me.

I have only had one session but I already feel like I have a different outlook on things. I am positive about what I need to do and I feel like I am gaining control back.  This was 100% a positive experience for me and I look forward to my next session.

Nor was she alone.

Francine wrote of the same mentor:

We talked and as we did, I really felt that she cared. She truly, genuinely cared. I don’t often run into real people, but from the moment I first met Miss Jen, I felt like she cared and that I could blindly trust her. I even made the comment, “You’re like a real friend. You really care!” We talked for awhile and then she said it was time. I so did not want it to be time. I think I even looked at my watch and said, “But my time is up.” I even said, “This was a great session, why ruin such a great thing?” Yeah, none of it got me out of the spanking part of the session.

There other professional women, young and old, single professionals and those married with children.

Nor is Jenifer alone in offering such a life style.

I found this comment from Antonia who reported an encounter with a barrister, Elizabeth, which changed her life.

I was well into my twenties and a little lost frankly. I earned good money as a freelance secretary and office manager and had even bought a decent flat in London, but there was no one in my life and I was self-centred, selfish and led a totally vacuous life. I was drinking too much and even abusing drugs.

I met Elizabeth in a café of all places. There was something about her that struck me immediately, she had poise and was so cool and collected. I remember she had a hat box on the table for her lawyers wig and I used it as a conversation piece. I am sure she thought me rude and gushing, but for some reason we started talking and I totally opened up to her. At the time I did not think this strange at all. She told she had been like me at the same age and we agreed to meet the following week.

At the second meeting she asked me if I had ever been spanked. I remember looking around to see if anyone was listening, but I didn’t know what to say so shook my head. Then she told me about her mentor of many years and how once a month they would meet and discuss things and then she would be held accountable. By then I knew how.

After talking a lot over several weeks and I knew what I was getting into I went to her house. I was incredibly curious and not to say terrified. She had told me that I could call it off at any point but if I did then it would be over. I had agreed to this.

After a serious talking to about my life she told me to partially undress and go stand in the corner. It was embarrassing and I was well out my comfort zone but I also felt kind of safe. What I hadn’t expected was that it would hurt. Over her knee at first was more unsettling than painful but that very quickly changed and by the end of the first spanking I had a very hot red bottom.

After about 10minutes in the corner again she gave me another spanking that really broke me down and I was properly crying by the end.

Those first three sessions were pretty tame compared to what followed and sometimes I cannot sit easily for days afterwards. Over the last nine years I have had some pretty wild sessions with her, things I would not have believed or agreed to when we started.

These days I don’t see her as often but cannot imagine life without seeing her at least half a dozen times a year.



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