Talking Point: Corner Time

21Jul15

corner time talking

I have had a lot of recent correspondence on this issue. Why are spanking and corner time so indelibly linked? Girls, ever had corner time?

One contributor here once said she spent all day in the corner for lying. Five hours in total I think. Any advance on that?

What about post versus pre-spanking corner time? Or are you taken out at intervals to be re-spanked?



22 Responses to “Talking Point: Corner Time”

  1. 1 Simon

    I enjoy cornertime but 5 hours does seem a trifle excessive. If I am giving a spanking I enjoy seeing a lady with her bottom exposed standing in a corner. Supposedly it is to give her time to reflect on her misdeeds but in reality it’s for my enjoyment. I would have her standing there before, during and after the punishment but it would only be for a few minutes each time, possibly longer if I make a cup of tea or similar. If it is me being punished I welcome a break between stages of the punishment but basically it is an enjoyable part of the ritual/game. What can add a bit of extra spice to cornertime is if there is a witness, someone who is brought in and shown the evidence of punishment.

    • 2 DJ

      I agree! The girl in question said she had been sent to the corner all day for lying and when I challenged her she said it was 5 hours – so only a small exaggeration.

      Ordinarily 30 mins to hour seems enough?

      • 30 minutes to an hour! How about a minute each day of the month so far? So today, that would be…21 minutes! I think that would encourage girls to get all their naughtiness in early in the month, and as the weeks go by you would have a better and better girl, with a cap at 31 minutes.

        You’re welcome, Indigo.

  2. I agree with everybody that 5hours in the corner is too long,plus I like the picture too.
    DeborahGifford

  3. I have been placed in the corner before a spanking, but I think of it as more as preparatory time and not as corner time. Sometimes the person who was about to spank me was not even present yet and I was to meditate on my misdeeds or failure to do what I should have done and then think about the punishment that my bare bottom would soon endure.

    After the spanking (or similar punishment) I would be returned to the corner, usually required to lace fingers behind head so my scorched bottom would be visible. There have been times I was required to face the room and not the corner however, or to face sideways so that profiles of my bottom as well as my front were visible. I agree with Simon that the presence of a third person adds to the experience–the humiliation and in some sense the arousal if that is what is happening.

    The duration of my post-spanking corner time is usually about 15-20 minutes. Five hours definitely seems a lot to me.

  4. 6 Becky

    Typically I get 15-30 minutes before spanking, caning or strapping to reflect on my failings and let me dwell on the pain and humiliation to come. After I get 30-60 minutes with hands on my head or fingertips on my shoulder with my reddened behind on display, knickers down and skirt or dress pinned up. This gives me time to collect myself, gather the learning of not offending again and of course be humiliated in front of HoH and sometimes his mother which adds to my shame. Once I failed to take my caning so I served the punishment twice meaning I spent about 3 hours total in the corner surrounding two canings which was horrible. Of course I also was further punished formally for failing to take my original caning earning me yet further spells with my nose against the wall.

    • 7 DJ

      That sounds effective – but I suggest not every time or a girl might get used to it. 😉

  5. 8 Svetlana

    Cornertime for 15 to 30 minutes right before or after a spanking makes it very hard to think about anything else. It is an amazingly simple trick to help create the right mindset for a punishment and focus on the sense of redemption that comes from having been punished.

    Any cornertime beyond 30 minutes is, to me, an effective punishment even without a spanking. It may also be a good exercise in patience, but I find it hard to look at it that way for more than a few minutes when I’m facing a wall. Anything beyond an hour involves quite a bit of physical discomfort just from having to stand for that long. When you have to kneel or raise your arms somewhere, things become uncomfortable much sooner.

    Five hours is something I have a hard time even imagining. My “personal best” was a little more than two and a half hours and I had lost all sense of time when I was done. That was almost a decade ago. In a way, I miss those experimental years when I had less responsibilities, more time to explore things. The sense of adventure and the companionship of other girls was really great sometimes. Still, that stint in the corner is something I do not want to experience it again, much less to top. I do wish I had experienced the interval thing. I want to know what the middle intervals (that are pre- and post-spanking cornertimes at the same time) feel like. Maybe one day …

    • 9 DJ

      two and a half hours in the corner is some experiemnt 😉

    • 10 Svetlana

      Well, it was more a test of obedience. Still, when you are not too sure yet just how kinky you are, it is a lot easier to try things when you think of them as “experiments”. 🙂

  6. 12 PDBB

    As a point of fact there were discipline *programs* out there that placed difficult or non-cooperative *enrollies* in extended time outs and called it being cornered. The unfortunate rebellious girl [some of whom were in their late teens and in a few cases beginning twenties] were forced to remain either at attention or seated staring at a bare wall for most of the day. Continue to act out or be defiant upped the punishment level.[Something these programs had the imagination and propensity to do].
    Fail to reevaluate your behavior as instructed and comply with the established rules and your time was extended with one more thing to feel sorry about. I know for a fact, one very rebellious young lady who experienced this *enhanced* corner time. She spent the day from wake up to lights out, was placed in rubber pants and given a *preliminary diaper rash starter condition* and not even allowed out for bathroom privileges. Her recalcitrance and defiance was held to a minimum for most of her remaining internment. rd

  7. 13 susie

    I often have to spend time in a corner waiting for my spanking as well as time after it.

  8. 14 Becky

    Susie I get the same when it is a punishment spanking or something more severe in terms of corporal punishment. For maintenance spankings I usually only get time in the corner/facing the wall after the application. This allows me to recover as well as reflect on how I still require regular discipline to maintain my self-discipline and fulfil my submissive role.

  9. 15 Redbum

    I give myself a diaper down corner time punishment using the same name app that talks, I just did it for 24 minutes in the corner with my diaper down and I feel more like a little child who is disciplined by myself before my self imposed self spanking on my bare bum.

  10. 16 AJ

    Between High School and college I spent the summer with my best friend Kelly and her family. We had a blast hanging out with boys – drinking beer and when we wanted to do an over-nighter we just made up a random girl friend to pretend to stay with. I knew her mother spanked her sometimes, or had through high school but although I had never been spanked at home it was not unusual around school.

    Of course eventually her mom caught on and we were yelled at. That’s when Kelly answered back and used an F-word.

    I got to see her spanked right on the spot even though her younger brother was there. She grabbed this paddle thing from the counter and then panties and denims yanked down, I didn’t think it would ever stop. Kelly just kicked up and bawled out apologies but I didn’t know an ass could go so red. I was embarrassed for her but kind of psyched too.

    When it was over – about a week later – she was sent to face the wall right there by the back door in the kitchen. Her brother was laughing almost as much as she was crying.

    Then Kelly’s mom turned to me and said ‘your turn.’

    I was shocked and flustered but she was not someone you argued with. I think I blurted something like ‘I am never spanked,’ she proved me wrong.

    Jackson, Kelly’s 16 old brother was just grinning like an ape and I almost died as my panties came down. The humiliation was not as bad as the sting – I had never felt anything like it. I was quickly bawling and snotty every bit like Kelly. It seemed to take hours.

    Finally I was made to stand next to Kelly while we both cried.

    We were there for hours (or so it seemed) while the family went on doing stuff around us. Jena (Kelly’s mom) only spoke to us when Kelly stomped her foot or did some groaning or heavy sighing otherwise ignored us. Jackson just kept having stuff to do in the kitchen or pretended to read a magazine in a chair from where he could see us.

    Thank God Kelly’s dad never came home til late and I was never so glad to be sent to my room.

    Kelly said that it had been a while but time out was always after a spanking and right there where everyone could see – sometimes even visitors (but mostly that had been when she was younger).

    She wasn’t pissed with her mom or anything she seemed to think we had it coming.

    I got over it and the rest of the summer was fun (but with less parties Lol)

    I think about that day a lot I mean a lot and I have read about spankings ever since. Been spanked for fun but never sent to the corner or so thoroughly put in my place. Looking back it was quite a cleansing experience.

    Sorry I wrote so much.

    AJ x

  11. 17 DJ

    So you hated it but loved it? If you are reading blogs like this then it must have made an impact – how long ago was this?

  12. 18 AJ

    Yes exactly – I guess – I hated it at the time – it hurt and it was soooo embarrassing – afterwards it leaves a mark on your pysch and the emotional cleansing sexual aspects of it grow in the mind.

    I am life ling (well since then) spanko – I devoured loads of spanking stories and any movie with a spanking in from my late teens.

    I love left field spanking stories where an arrogant girl gets put in her place.

  13. 20 Sami

    Where to begin…

    First I love this blog … more Angela please pretty please … it is so English 🙂

    Lurked here like forever 😦

    Corner time … 😦

    I was spanked growing up – especially my teens – but not often – no big deal – this is about being 19+ and in college an embarrassing story and my awakening into the obsession with spanking

    my first summer back from college before my second year my folks were in China for six weeks and I went to stay with my Aunt Paula (actually a cousin of my moms) on the farm – that’s where my Grandma lived and some other cousins and my sister had been living while mom and dad were in China

    it was a kids paradise (mostly girls cepting Jake 20 and little Pete) and crazy fun – and even though I was one of the oldest I just joined in.

    One day after being told to tone it down by grandma and Paula we broke a window during a ball game

    Paula came out yelling and grabbed her daughter Susan who was a couple of years young than me and yanked down her pants and panties and gave her one hell of a spanking – I was shocked that it was soooo public and that at 17 Susan was even getting a spanking

    her mom yells to the other kids to stay there

    by the time Susan is a sobbing mess with a butt that looked beyond tomato she has grabbed the next kid one after the other – only little Pete is let off as he was just following us – and me of course… (btw Jake is not there) but then Paula looks at me and beckons

    I am a little confused until she says ‘I guess you ain’t too old’

    Grandma joins in then and says ‘I reckon not’

    WTF (my thoughts then) I think I mouthed off and but mostly I was still stunned by the unfolding scene and Paula being so mad

    next thing I am over Paula’s knee with my shorts and panties down in from of little Pete and all the other kids and I get the spanking of my life. Mom was never so bad…

    Afterwards when I am still bawling like any of the others Paula has us all line up facing the back wall of the house next to the porch – panties still down and our red bottoms in a row – all 5 of us!

    I was in no state to resist and no one crosses Grandma anyway

    So embarrassing … and that was before Jake and two friends drive up !!

    I didn’t live it down and it wasn’t even my last spanking that summer.

    That is my delurk!

    Sammi XX

    • 21 DJ

      Great story – feel free to tell us more 🙂

    • 22 DJ

      Oh Thanks for the kind words 🙂

      I intend to return to Angela but it is a time thing these days 😦


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