Girls that don’t talk
It’s been a week of revelations. And there have been three conversations that have led to a revaluation of how likely to be true certain salacious and fantastic anecdotes posted here and elsewhere are.
For instance, back in 2009 A Voice carried a feature on birching in Kent into modern times. Although the dinner table conversation mentioned was pretty much faithful to what was said at the time, it had to be assumed that it was all too fanciful. However, there are hidden places that will be forever England and some girls don’t talk.
So the next time some former grammar school boy or knowing comprehensive school oik sounds off knowingly about what went on in public schools, consider what do they really know?
The truth is well-bred public school girls don’t talk about it. So you are not going to be able to Google it. You either know or you don’t.
Take for instance an on-going conversation over at Sometimes A Girl.
A whole debate was sparked by a young women finding out she was not alone in being spanked at home in her 20s. The gist of it is, it still goes on but what 20-something woman is going to talk about it. It is way too embarrassing.
Here is a flavour of that debate:
My aunt allowed me to stay with her. She was much stricter than my mom and I knew that. I also knew that she still spanked her 17-year-old daughter and I knew that she would expect me to behave like an angel. So there would be consequences for bad behaviour, but I really didn’t consider my aunt spanking me at 22 years old.
I very soon found out that spanking was exactly what she had in mind. She usually spanked with an oval hand held paddle, a school style paddle or a strap. All this on the bare bottom and believe me you did not want to sit for a couple of days.
I stayed with her for the next four years; finished my Master’s and got a great job, all the while taking trips over my aunt’s knee.
Okay, so she was my aunt and not my mom, but her daughter is now 25, still at home and still getting spanked. I hated getting spanked at the time and felt totally embarrassed and humiliated, but I am indebted to my aunt.
Truth really is stranger than fiction; what about this.
My mom intends to enforce family rules and spank me as long as I live at home or get any support from them, but they are happy with me staying at home as long as I want. I suspect certain girls I know from classes or from around the campus have the same situation, but no one has admitted it.
I got a spanking over Christmas break and two since then – always bare on Mom’s lap with her hand and a brush, just like junior high and high school. She is serious about me behaving.
I would prefer not to have to follow their rules and certainly not get spanked, but it is still a great deal overall, and I know they love me.
This mother said:
My oldest is 23, just graduated from college and is going to stay home until she has a good foundation. She knows that if she misbehaves her bottom will be very sore.
It is rare. The last time was around Thanksgiving and the time before that was early last summer, but it happens and she sure won’t admit it.
My next daughter is 18 and soon to graduate from high school. Her last spanking was Monday night, the last before that was about two weeks previously. I’m sure she didn’t caucus with her friends about it. In fact I heard her tell a friend she ‘got yelled at’ and that’s pretty typical.
Girls might not talk, but sometimes mothers do.
I guess my mother talks to other mothers about spanking me, it’s embarrassing. Especially when I’m in the room, thank god I don’t get corner time anymore, but I do get grounded and sent to bed early after I’m spanked. I’m being grounded now.
I also feel like a child when mom has me over her knees even though I’m 24, so it’s real embarrassing when someone of my friends finds out I’m still spanked.
Who can say that all these stories are true, but they really could be. Consider the emotional aspects of this contribution and the embarrassment of being ‘outed’ even when you don’t talk.
I am also in the’ Spanked Older club,’ as when I was still living at home during my first two years of college, I was subject to Mother’s “under my roof, over my lap” dictates.
At least my parents let up on some of the rules – I was legally an adult – so the quite common high school spankings were reduced greatly to discipline only for major misbehaviour.
I remember there were three spankings at 19 and two at 20 years old – typical panties-down rump roastings OTK with hairbrush, spoon or belt.
I was so used to being spanked I didn’t feel “resentful” for being punished so childishly as a college gal; mostly I feel “foolish/silly” getting my panties pulled down and going over the lap – until the brush or belt started – then I was sobbing and squirming like every other time.
But, like others mentioned, I always tried to keep my spankings secret from any friends or others. Especially the older I got when fewer friends were still being spanked I didn’t want anyone else to know I got it.
I remember being 17 and driving around with friends. I had a curfew and tried to get them to drop me off at home on time but they were goofing around, not worried.
It was awful – I knew I’d be spanked if I was late but I couldn’t bring myself to tell my friends. I just sat in the back seat with visions of Mom’s hairbrush waiting for me.
And it was!
Also, like others, my mother was no help. She was proud of her daughters and often accepted compliments on our behaviour by assuring her friends that we behaved so well because we didn’t want our “fannies spanked.”
Gee, thanks mom!
There is lots more like this, but if you do join the conversation, remember it is people’s lives so play nice.
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